Best subject lines for online dating emails
I wrote it because I was very angry at a specific incident.
I stand by a lot of it, but if somebody links you here saying “HERE’S THE SORT OF GUY THIS SCOTT ALEXANDER PERSON IS, READ THIS SO YOU KNOW WHAT HIS BLOG IS REALLY ABOUT”, please read any other post instead.
Those messages made me run far, far away from online dating.
How the Manchester Animal Shelter does it: I just had one tonight boys. Some men resort to insulting your looks, your weight, your single status "oh, i see you're stuck up and think you're too good for guys.
In other words, there’s at least one reason he chose you other than the fact that he can have sex with you.
It’s useful to realize that there’s always more than one reason a man choose a woman, so the more useful question you could ask yourself is, “What are all the reasons he chose me over all the other women on Earth?
EDIT: This is the most controversial post I have ever written in ten years of blogging.
Testing is how we protect ourselves from long-term heartache and eventual heartbreak. Focus on being really clear on all the reasons he’s chosen you. If this relationship does not deliver that, it’s better you know that now.