If you’ve recently experienced a breakup, spend some time with yourself and regain your emotional balance before you start to date again.
Only then will you be able to have a healthy, positive dating life that brings you joy and satisfaction. The answer to this question is the pillar of your dating process.
Don’t let desperation for love, attention, and affection lure you into the world of dating before you’re ready.
Take the necessary time to check yourself, work on you, and find the ‘real’ you so that you know where you’re going and why.
Your goal can be marriage or only to meet someone deserving of your time. Dating with intention means that you are dating to meet someone who is on the same wavelength as you are who makes you a better person and makes your life a bit sweeter.
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Without it, you will waste your time, continue to get the same results you always have and get nowhere.
Most of us date because we want to meet someone to marry who resonates with our views, principles, and values. Are you willing to invest the necessary time to determine, understand & fine-tune your ‘why’?
The moment I got my mind right about what dating is and what it is not and got intentional about it I started enjoying it more and began meeting extraordinary men, which includes my boyfriend, James.
By intentional, I don’t mean having the intention to date now or in the future!
I mean dating with a goal, with purpose, with intent.
It’s all about learning how to date the right way, why you’re dating in the first place, & being intentional in your actions.
In fact, I learned the only way to date successfully and with intention is to be selfish. Dating is a great activity and can be loads of fun when viewed and handled properly.It is the one area of life where it is necessary that everything revolves around me, myself, and I because you have to be honest, vulnerable & transparent with yourself as you assess the potential of the men you are contemplating dating. However, some date as if it’s a hobby and have watered down its importance.